If you’re like me and are searching for a stable relationship, trust me, you’ll be better off avoiding the party scene. Try going to the library, a local coffee shop, a low-key concert or maybe a school game event. Participating in activities and events that are enjoyable and important to you will ultimately lead you to someone who shares similar values.The most important thing to keep in mind is that there is someone out there, but you have to make sure you’re looking in the right places.
And then, if you're lucky enough to recognize it, it stays.A lot of the disaster-ships I've seen are things were there's intimacy without commitment. Posted by: Aries on June 4, 2010 PM Oh man, Aries you TOTALLY nailed this one. Posted by: Erika on June 4, 2010 PM @Peter My feelings on being single: ANGST INSECURITY ANGST. I was single (and inadvertently celibate) most of my time in Oberlin, and I always felt like something was terribly, terribly wrong with me.