Dating a filipina
We like a man who can take care of us, although we can take care of ourselves. If we’re not getting the attention and appreciation that we deserve, we don’t just shrug our shoulders, we give you the cold shoulder.
Our the silent treatment—is an invitation to be wooed.
They believe that is the biggest reason why I should want to be here. I explain the amazing things that make me want to be here and parts of this culture that inspire me so much.
That it would be the number one reason why a foreigner would ever want to call the Philippines home. I guess it is part of the reason why I get scared to date a Filipina.
Once, when my husband had revealed to his Vietnamese barber that he’s married to a Filipina, the excited barber exclaimed, “You married Asian, now you sit back and relax.” My husband almost fell off his chair. When he married me he had these illusions of coming home to a Filipino feast every day.
Also expect to spend a lot of time with the tribe for parties and outings. I think sometimes when I meet girls here my mind goes crazy! For me even though I may only inspire one more person to shift their perspective… maybe it will inspire foreigners who are here for girls (for the wrong reasons) to at THE VERY LEAST respect this culture and these beautiful women. Instantly their minds will drift back to the thought that being with a Filipina is the only reason one would want to stay in the Philippines. These situations and conversations with locals, they really do happen to me quite often. share those reasons first and foremost with foreigners and each other…There is this complete sense of disbelief when I tell them otherwise. I talk about the amazing little inspiring traits I see in Filipino hearts. I get scared that I will lose that chance to challenge Filipinos to see the other things in their culture that are beautiful.
In some cases people will even start laughing in the sense they really don’t believe it. I talk about the beautiful mountains, rivers, and beaches. The absolutely beautiful culture I continue to learn from. To challenge them to focus on those first and foremost. For all I know I could fall in love with a Danish girl in the Philippines, or a Swedish girl in Canada, or a Filipina in the Canada…
Thaw out the icy treatment by buying us flowers, cooking for us, and most importantly, by listening to our woes. A few years back, women were marrying in their early twenties.