3) This Secret Psychology Brain Hack Here’s a way to discover how you might be sabotaging yourself without knowing it.When you go on a date, what do you think the purpose is? Other times you really like someone and it doesn’t work out, and you’ve probably wondered if there was anything you could’ve done differently. Most of us have experienced a serious relationship by accident, usually when we really like the person we’re dating and it just naturally develops into something more.Likewise, if she’s got some clothes or 8,412 bottles of hair product in your shower, you’re in.
If you’re suffering from no-life syndrome, step back and ask yourself why you aren’t having fun on your own. Play the sport you like or pursue one of your interests. Insecure people push for serious relationships for the security it brings, and people can sense that.
If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).
1) Be Independent Some “experts” say you should act unavailable.
If all goes well, you won’t have to do “the talk” of whether or not you’re a serious couple.
Watch for these milestones, and you’ll know if the casual dating phase is almost over.
The final milestone is when you know it’s official – whether you say it’s a serious relationship or not.