Dating responding to her first email
If you respond to “Hey”, don’t be surprised your relationship is nothing more than “Hey” level. There’s nothing worse than finding a generic copy-and-paste message in your inbox.Since I write a blog about the good, bad and funny of online dating, a lot of my female friends send me a lot of their good, bad and funny interactions from online dating.Most of them falling into the bad and funny categories. Like, when guys send these messages do they honestly think that the women they are sending them to don’t know that these aren’t just copied and pasted messages and sent in masses to lots of different women. They must think they are so fucking clever sending these copy and pasted messages to lots of women a night.Typically, it’s something complementary on something she has mentioned as a passion, interest or career. ” Objective 2: Show we have similar interest/things in common Okay, you’ve proven you’ve read her profile, now you need to demonstrate you actually have things in common.Mentioning shared interest helps create the buy in, she needs to relate to you. I once dressed up as Luke Skywalker for 6 months straight, prior to the release of the Star Wars: Episode III Revenge of the Sith!It COULD be a tell-tale sign of things to come in the relationship.
Don’t try and be funny I’ve seen SO MANY messages from my female friends of guys trying to be sarcastic or use humor in their messages, but since their idiot cavemen it comes off as rude, cynical or awkward.” Objective 3: Start a conversation The goal is for her to respond back to you right?Well in order for that to happen, you have to ask her questions.Be literate Ironic coming from me, since I don’t proof read or edit my blog.
But believe it or not I actually re-read my messages many times, checking for spelling and grammatical errors.I wonder how many good, lasting relationships started with a copy and pasted message he sent to 15 other women that same night.