Non sexual touch while dating


09-Jan-2019 15:35

The security that he feels ties back in to several of these points.

He feels secure in knowing that you approve of him and where he is in his career.

He feels secure and loved when you touch him non-sexually throughout the day.

He will remove himself somewhat from the relationship.

”If a man’s partner doesn’t respect his path or mission in life, then he will find it very difficult to feel other than an anxious need to distance himself from her.

Men and women both connect through sex and communication, but generally, women connect better through communication and men connect better through sex.

So, to my man-loving readers out there, if he reaches across the bed for you, even showing the willingness to embrace him, to kiss him deeply, and to romantically engage him could be enough to make him feel loved (not that the follow through isn’t enjoyable).

This lack of awareness around women needing to connect through words and men needing to connect through sex can sometimes turn into an unfortunate and rapid downward spiral.Traditionally, when women (or the feminine associated partner) needed to solve a problem, they would go further into the tribe – connecting with close friends and family and discussing their issues. Men need frequent non-sexual touch as well as a sense of sexual access.



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